I want to talk about multiplicity in your dating life. They think someone who dates several people at once must be a cheater, a commitment-phobe or at a minimum, a liar.While this may be true of some women who are dating multiple people, I actually believe that there are many good (and, in fact, great) reasons to date several different people when you're single. Who said you have to go straight to a relationship? A couple of weeks ago I wrote about why dating is a discovery phase for fact finding. I don’t want to get into a relationship too quickly?It is only by really going out there and looking for someone who excites you that you will find that amazing relationship. They are people who stimulate your mind and your soul.It's all about understanding the law of attraction. Until you go out and work on your inside, there's no way you're going to attract the person you want.
If I do, it might work out better, but I could lose them both if they don't like the arrangement or if they find out if I tried to keep it from them.
And, let's face it, I'm not used to more than one girl liking me at a time.
I'm able to manage multiple friendships, because it's important to me, so maybe if relationships are important enough, I can pull it off.
Despite knowing I should play the field more, I haven't been able to bring myself to do it. I could tell I liked her because I got into a good mood whenever she texted/talked to me.
While I was hanging out with Pam, I went to a party and met a friend of a friend named Nicole.