Over the past few years I have written about boundaries, your personal limits of what you will and won’t put up with, many times.
Yet, every day I hear from women who even in reading about boundaries and knowing the importance of them are afraid to actually divorce on the horizon, and who are not over their ex. You’re not someone to pass time with while they figure out what they do and don’t want, and the moment that you involve yourself in any of the above situations, the person knows that they don’t really have to do anything.
You deserve better than someone’s half hearted interest and there is no excuse for Start as you mean to go on.
If you answered “no” to any of the above questions, then maybe you should discuss those issues with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
If he doesn’t, well then maybe he’s not that into you.
Reader question (cont’d): What is your stance on dating websites?
The problem is, he never says when and he hardly calls me or initiates contact in between dates. I do know for a fact that he likes to take it slow, is that it? (Note: This Ask a Guy was more of a dialogue – it went on for several e-mails and over a couple of months. Enjoy.) eric charles: My bet is that your intuition/instinct is right that he does like you.
Maybe he’s treating me as his friend and is playing the field?